Is this a good idea for mine and my bfs 6 months/his birthday?

So our 6 months is in a month from now and I wanna do something special. He does all these little cute things for me randomly and I was thinking I could bake him home made cookies, make a video with a special song and pics of me and him and the song in the background and give him a lapdance because I know he really wants me to. Then his birthday is like a week after our anniversairy. So for it I was thinking write a cute message like I love you in the top bottom bunk part of his bed with glow in the dark stars, bring him his favorite candy, a massage, and maybe learn to play black ops lol and you all know maybe a little action ;) but not sex. Do you think this is a good idea?? What could I do to make it better?? Thanks! :)